The Boundary Advantage: Why Saying “No” Is a Self-Defense Skill
The Boundary Advantage: Why Saying “No” Is a Self-Defense Skill Most people think self-defense begins the moment someone grabs you — when a hand closes on your wrist, when someone steps into your space, when force becomes undeniable. But real-world self-defense usually begins long before anyone touches you. It begins at the moment you feel uncomfortable. At the moment something feels “off.” At the moment your body whispers, “leave,” and your brain responds, “I don’t want to be rude.” That internal moment — what you do right there — is where most danger is either prevented… or permitted. Boundaries ....
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